X11 fallback monitor causes app confusion during DPMS (and other?) wakeups
**Issue Description**
When a DisplayPort monitor wakes from DPMS sleep, xfdesktop resets all desktop icon positions to column 0, overwriting the saved `icons.screen0.yaml` with scrambled positions and injecting a ghost "Default Monitor" entry.
**Steps to Reproduce**
1. Single monitor setup via DisplayPort, manual icon arrangement saved in `icons.screen0.yaml`
2. Let monitor enter DPMS sleep (or force with `xset dpms force off`)
3. Wake monitor
4. Desktop icons are rearranged to column 0 (intermittent — roughly 50% of wake cycles)
**Expected Behavior**
Icon positions saved in `icons.screen0.yaml` should be preserved across monitor sleep/wake cycles.
**Actual Behavior**
xfdesktop rewrites `icons.screen0.yaml` on wake, adding a ghost monitor entry and clearing saved positions:
- level: 0 monitors:
- id: "152a49732d4cb24514a7c04b38eebbf01d5e33e2" display_name: "Default Monitor" # ghost entry — not the real monitor geometry: x: 0 y: 0 width: 2560 height: 1440
- id: "f359e08b4a9cfbd55a1a64e33cbb62a2dd3c1ba0" display_name: "Microstep MSI G273Q CA8A421800157 (DisplayPort-0)" geometry: x: 0 y: 0 width: 2560 height: 1440 icons: {} # positions lost
**Root Cause (confirmed via udevadm)**
The monitor drops HPD on DPMS sleep, causing the GPU to fire DRM `change` events on wake (confirmed via `udevadm monitor --subsystem-match=drm`). xfdesktop responds to these events by reinitializing the desktop. During the brief moment the monitor has no EDID identity, xfdesktop creates a "Default Monitor" fallback entry with a different ID, finds no saved layout for it, and auto-arranges all icons.
`KERNEL[16469.671535] change /devices/.../drm/card1 (drm)
UDEV [16469.677745] change /devices/.../drm/card1 (drm)
KERNEL[16470.081315] change /devices/.../drm/card1 (drm)
UDEV [16470.082869] change /devices/.../drm/card1 (drm)`
Two rapid change events per wake cycle are consistent with DP link retraining (negotiate → blip → settle).
**Workaround**
Setting the YAML immutable via `sudo chattr +i ~/.config/xfce4/desktop/icons.screen0.yaml` prevents overwriting but is not a real fix.
**Environment**
* OS: Arch Linux
* Xfdesktop version: 4.20.2-1
* Windowing system: X11
* GPU: ASRock Radeon RX 6700 XT (amdgpu driver)
* Monitor: Microstep MSI G273Q connected via DisplayPort
* Single monitor setup
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